Nov 15, 2008

Home - for the teenagers who are frustrated and for students studying miles away from home

What does home mean?It means a place where there is love and affection...it means a place where u can go at the end of the day without being worried or a place where u can b urself without having to bother about wht they wud think of u :-) as teenagers v come out of homes,to experience the world...the '' i want to b alone,i want me time,i want to b independant'' vanishes once u actually experience life out alone...No friends,no studies,no career can ever take place of the 2 people,Ur parents and siblings(if u have any).,The mental peace and the strength that a home gives u cannot b found in any place on the earth,not even a hundred million dollars can give u the peace and bliss that a home gives u...trust me!!..every happiness away frm home is still empty without having those ppl c u experience it!!
Yeah,u learn a lot of things like taking care of urself,valueing every small thing that comes in ur way,valueing every feeling and every bit of the times u have had..!! it makes u mentally more strong..but also weak at the same time..
Home is a place where u cry,u shout,u scream,u laugh,u argue,u make mistakes(huge ones at times!!)but still ur always loved and petted at the end of the day!!The feeling of somebody being behind u is a feeling apart from this world..
Even a piglet which is being put into perfumed water and given the best of aromas and treatment will want to go back to the muddy home it loved in !!Tht is home.,..No spa can ever equalise an oil massage given by your mother neither can the freedom of having an atm card and drawing thousands ever equalise the fun and fear with half ur heart in ur mouth asking dad for a hundred...the fun of eating maggi is fighting with ur sibling with every noodle of it being divided into two and u fighting for the last spoon of it and not eating it alone....!!!
every second spent at home bcomes worth in platinum(oops..even platinum is small in comparison)
I know as indivisuals we have to always fly out of our nests some day...but Y is it that god made people who love us and the same feeling hurts us when we are away from them?
Y is it that u look around for ur dad's hand while crossing even an empty street for a dad's hand to hold u when u know he is far away from u..y do u wish a mom would open the door for u when u come back tired frm college?Y do u wish to sit in ur room and experience the bliss and the smell of ur room when u know it is far away from u..y is it that no matter wht u do,thoughts dont waver from home..y is it that the best of a college cannot make u happy as ur humble home?y is it that best of technology u use alone make u feel as happy as u are as the boss of all the gadjets at home?Even a Best of friend whom u depend upon for mental saisfaction will neve be there for u when u need him/her the most!
Why was the word y ever invented when there are no answers to thousands of them....!
Realise cherish and be with your loved ones as long as u are with them(No,its not the effect of a karan johar's Kal ho na Ho,nor is it any hindi movie dialogue)
Its a feeling come frm within,its experience ..its the experience of things i learnt the hard way which makes me write this!!
Guess i realised no words,no sentences,no paragraphs,no dictionaries,no encyclopedias,no google can ever google u the actual meaning of ''HOME""!!!!!!!!!!!

3 comments:

Aarti said...

that was good dhanni, just polish it a little more to make it 'more formal', though I don't know whether that's what blogs are for -w riting the informal way/
photos are good - that's the good old Mysore for you! A different perspective

Jith...!! said...

It was Nice. the article "Home - for the teenagers who are frustrated and for students studying miles away from home" gives us an idea abt hw u r missin u r near n dear ones..

Vivek RdY WaNnA b FuT C.A said...

yup nice work from u